Will You Quit?

There are many approaches, methodologies, and schools of thought on how to conduct due diligence in startup investing. The earlier the company, the less that can actually be known. With so much unknown and to be determined, getting at the motivation and tenacity of the founders is essential. That frames the essence of the bet both founders and investors are going to take.

Of course I like a good financial model (never seen one that doesn’t scale up rapidly) or total addressable market (TAM) slide (never seen one that says the market is small). I more lean into what does it look like when the company is at $1M, $5M, and $10M in revenue, the cost structure to support that, how fast can they get there, and what does the market to get there look like from a bottom’s up perspective. Things like how many companies of your perceived ideal customer profile exist and how will you reach and convert them on positive economics. I did a post about all that back in 2021 “What We Ask In Due Diligence” that you can read.

In the meantime, let’s focus on the most important question (to me) an early stage investor needs to get an answer to during due diligence. 

What would it take for you to quit?

At this point in my wandering career I have made over 70 early stage investments as both an angel investor and venture capitalist. I have had the privilege of watching many of them play out over the years with all the twists and turns along the way.

Sometimes (often) startups don’t work out as desired. There can still be success but there are many degrees of that and, in some cases, it merely means finishing well and winding down in an orderly manner. That is part of the equation as well and how you finish matters more than how you start be that with great success or total failure.  You have to finish the drill completely if for no one else than yourself so you have lived the experience, have a story to tell and finish with your reputation intact.  

Anyone doing early stage investing should know the risks including a total loss of capital. If they don’t understand that then you as a founder should think twice about taking their money.

So back to the question – “what would it take for you to quit?”  To me, at the earliest of stages of investing this is the number one risk for an investor. For my fund, we are not structured or equipped to step in and run the company should the founder or founders walk away. The founders are the soul of a startup and essential in its creation and early growth.

So, what insight led to asking this question you might ask?  

A post-mortem discussion on an investment we made where the team, literally, quit to take jobs with a big techco. What did we miss?  For starters, we didn’t ask them this question, together, as a founding team.  

Now that we do ask it I get all sorts of answers from “Never!” to “Not til the IPO baby!” to “Hmm, I hadn’t thought about that.”  Most times that question has never been asked of a founder or founding team and it is fascinating to hear the answers especially among founders that have not had that discussion prior.

One of the more memorable answers and might very well be the best one went something like this: “Well, if we try what we think will work and it doesn’t and try all the other things we think will work and they don’t then maybe it would be time to see if this was actually still worth spending the time and energy doing.”  An honest and informed response. 

Startups are hard. Being a founder is hard. The journey is a series of big advances and enormous setbacks and getting at how founders are considering that journey out of the gate is essential and, to me, the most important thing to understand in due diligence.

The Crush of the Preference Stack

One of my very early angel investments made 12 years ago now taught me an essential lesson as an early stage investor.

What lesson is that?

The preference stack.

I would argue that you have not truly lived as an early stage investor until you have directly learned this lesson with your own money and experienced it first hand.

So, what is a preference stack?  In its simplest explanation, it is the rights and preferences that come along with each new equity round or bridge round a company raises.  When all is going swell, everyone wants to keep riding the wave and the company has significant leverage to negotiate the terms. If things aren’t or were and now there has been hiccup, that leverage shifts to the investors and, in many cases, the new investors who have not been on the cap table since the beginning.

How can this negatively impact you as an angel or pre-seed investor?  Well let’s just say you invested first check in on a company at a $5M valuation. Company executes and raises more money at a $10M valuation. On paper you are doing pretty good. Along comes a Series A based on even stronger performance at a $40M valuation. Everybody is feeling good and you are getting much sought after but not bankable markups.

And then a hiccup. Could be a missed quarter, a competitive shift in the market not in the company’s favor, whatever and it really doesn’t matter but it informs the next financing the company has to do be that a bridge (via convertible note likely b/c it is debt like) or equity of some sort. Either way these things can have liquidation preferences meaning that money gets paid 2-3x or whatever back first and/or participation rights meaning they get their preference money then get in line ahead of you and other shareholders to take more proceeds and/or some type of accruing dividend that builds up a cash payable to the investor(s) due upon sale. They can even re-price previous investors and force them to common shares via a recapitalization (that is a topic for another post).

So let’s just focus on the gnarly liquidation preferences and other things that puts the latest money in front of your first check in terms of payout.

This is the situation I experienced. Early check into a company in a small round. Things were going great, then not so great. A couple of rounds where the company was not dictating the terms and the preference stack was primed and ready to fall on not just preferred share investors but all the holders of common stock (ie, mostly founders and employees) who don’t have the rights and preferences that come along with preferred shares.

The company got acquired by a bigco in a cash deal about 6 years after my investment. Lots of buzz and coverage. High fives online, etc. Looked like a great deal and the purchase price was actually pretty strong.

However, I got crushed by the preference stack. The money that had come in at the Series B then Series B+ then a bridge note then several other things to keep the company funded all stood ahead of me at various liquidation and participation preferences.

I received zero. There was nothing left for my share class after all the other bites were taken out of the apple including nothing left for the common shareholders other than jobs for most employees with the acquiring company.

How do you stop this from happening?  Hard to do if you are an individual, a small fund, or only an early round (pre-seed, seed) investor. There are some things that can protect you a bit as a preferred shareholder to grant you the same rights as next issued shares but those can and frequently do evaporate as a company goes through subsequent rounds. 

Very much a golden rule model – those with the gold make the rules.

This “feature” of early stage investing reinforces the need for a sizable portfolio of investments if you are an angel or fund investing as a first check, pre-seed, or seed stage investor as well as the perspective that this is a possible path. If you aspire to angel invest, please pick more than one company and build a broad portfolio. Please.

As an early stage investor, you just cannot control what is happening positively or negatively to you in subsequent rounds especially if the company loses its leverage to dictate the terms of a financing. Yes, a board seat can put you closer to the decision but boards can and often do get re-defined with each round of funding.

With so many lofty valuations and ridiculous funding rounds being done these days in “hot” companies, I can only wonder what the preference stacks look like in those companies. A relatively newish fund manager I was chatting with recently who had a few of those hot names in their portfolio had no idea what the preference stack was or how it worked. It made me feel for him and, more importantly, his LPs.

It won’t matter if it all goes well but if it doesn’t, even for a short period of time, watch out below.

Updates are more for you than your investors

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The topic of regular and routine investor updates is pretty thoroughly covered out there. This recent Reddit thread covers it and even tools that you can use to write and share them.

I am not going to dig into the format, timing or structure of these things specifically but rather why do them at all, who exactly are they being done for and how they can become an interesting part of your entrepreneurial journey.

As an investor, I do need updates from the companies in the portfolio. I have my own set of accountabilities and reporting that goes out to our fund LPs as well as feed into the quarterly valuation process we use plus the annual audit/review cycle for each of our funds. So yes, I write updates too and use this mindset to do them.

No communication means one of two things – things are so bad you are not doing them or things are so good we either don’t matter anymore or have long since lost any remnant of information rights.

In the case of the latter, preferred shareholders do maintain statutory inspection rights which means I can come to your office, sit in a room and review board minutes, company financials, etc.

The goal is not to play that card (and I have only had to threaten it twice to get information) but to build a strong enough relationship with the founder and founding team that your involvement in the flow of information remains valuable to the company.

Early on, it seems the bar to this is to simply read, process, and reply to the update that a founder spent the time and brainpower to create. I am constantly amazed at how merely doing that sets you apart from most other investors let alone taking action to deliver on an ask.

So back to why do these things at all as a founder.

I learned during my startup founder days that a monthly update early on in the journey is a great way to force personal accountability as well as keep folks in the loop who are important – friends, family members, potential employees, potential investors, journalists/influencers.  Yes, a pretty broad audience so this should not be highly confidential but is an opportunity to provide updates to those who are likely interested in what you are doing. 

Four easy sections – Company, Product, Customers plus an ask or two. Oh, and put the asks at the top rather than waiting to the end which might not get seen.  Be as specific as possible to make it easily actionable even if it is forwarded to someone else.

And on that, make these full of information you’d share at a public presentation. More sensitive information like cash balance, runway, burn rate, forecasted sales pipeline, etc. need to be held to a smaller audience mainly consisting of those on the cap table, especially lead investors and any funds/angels that could be in a position to do follow-on investing in your company. So yes, you will likely do two versions of this thing.

So, again, why bother?  For starters these provide a moment and space for you as a founder to take inventory of what you said you were going to do, what you did and why it did or didn’t go the way you thought. Spoiler alert – it will not go the way you thought it would. That doesn’t mean disaster (usually) just part of the twisted path of entrepreneurship.

So by doing these regularly (likely monthly early on), you make yourself accountable to you. You will also end up creating a well documented history of your founder journey so you will see what you were thinking and doing and different stages of the business. Sort of a hack to generate a history of your adventure.

Beyond the benefits for you, these become documented snapshots of company performance at different intervals which are an important and differentiated add to your data room.

They show potential investors how you think and how you communicate. Essential skills for moving from founder doing it all to CEO leading teams and building a company. So start with monthly then as the company matures move to quarterly and do a report out like a CEO of a public company would do.

Don’t short change yourself on updates and do find the time to do them. Yes, investors like me want and expect them but they are more for you than for me in the long run.

The Year Ahead

Today is January 2, 2026 and I am writing this post from my home in Bend, Oregon. Over the past few years, I have tried to pick a word to theme the year around so not overly rigid in terms of goals and objectives but a central theme to ground my thinking and activities. 

For 2025, that word was “agency” which did really define my headspace both personally and professionally a year ago as the notion of having a sense of control plus having the ability to influence my thoughts and behaviors was a guiding theme for the year.

As 2026 dawns, the word for this year is “journey.”  There are way too many cliches about it being all about the journey and not the destination but this is essentially the guiding theme for this year for me. There are many things in motion in my personal and professional life where I need to pause and enjoy the moment without having a pre-determined next step or end goal.

I am staring down my 55th birthday in June and have had the privilege and good luck to achieve most of what I had worked towards during my professional career. I am certainly not done but do feel a sense of a new chapter to be written for the next phase of work.  

Personally, my children are turning into young adults with one in college and one headed there in a year or so. My role as a parent has been evolving as my children leave childhood behind and embark upon young adulthood. I seek to continue to improve and provide them the love, support and resources for them to become the best versions of themselves. To me, that is the job of a parent – give them the tools and wisdom for them to achieve their own goals and be defined by their own success whatever that may be.

One additional thing I intend to practice is “practiced apathy” as described by Josh Brown in his Three New Year’s Resolutions post. I think this quote is spot on and very well written:

We have far too many people marching through the streets day and night (do they even have jobs?), deliberately offending their neighbors and committing acts designed to produce video clips that spread on social media. Apathy, then, becomes a counterbalance, not a cop out. Performatively fighting back and matching outrage with outrage only fuels it.

Not trying to be cynical but fueling the attention and outrage machine that originates in our online lives and creeps into our offline lives with my time, energy, and emotion is something I will endeavor to avoid.

Here’s to a great 2026!